Lately, I've been figuring things out about life. I have had a lot of things happen within the last time I've ever written anything on this blog site (i.e. FINALLY having a boyfriend and dating).
Some things I've noticed from having a relationship and seeing other relationships before me:
The main thing is that whether you are a man or woman, everyone wants to feel appreciated. They want to feel cherished, special, loved, etc. Am I wrong?
Please let me know if I am way off or just speaking out of my ass but everyone in every relationship wants to go on a date. Now, I'm not entirely sure for you men out there but I could say for most women, we want to go on dates. We want quality time with our significant other without the presence of others joining in. Alone time. Right?
Guys, a piece of advice: take your girl out.
It doesn't have to be a fancy place where you will spend $100 on a piece of bread but somewhere that you believe will be special for the both of you. Quality time doesn't mean being in bed together. It's way more than that. It also doesn't mean that if ya'll are hanging out together already, it's a date. NO!!
NETFLIX & CHILL IS NOT A F***ING DATE, GUYS!
It's 2017, that ship has sailed! Sex is not always considered part of a date or dating in general. Believe it or not, IT'S NOT!
Yes, I agree we are the most complicated species in this world but that shouldn't matter.
Some times, we (especially me) feel very unappreciated when we don't get anything special. A box of chicken wings from Hooters is not a special gift. It just feels like left overs you couldn't finish during lunch and just gave them to me. Girls love to be showered with love and devotion, even we deny it. It's within us to want those types of feelings, to see those gestures being done.
We are jealous people! A woman's worst enemy is another woman. We want what they have even when we can't have it. Unfortunately, it's true and there's no reason we have to deny this fact, ladies. When we see other girls with their significant other doing cute couple things, we yearn for the same gratification or even better. When we don't get it once in a while, it becomes nothing but just sadness and a waste. As sad as it is to confess, I hate it.
So guys, please think if your girl or significant other deserves some time with you. SPECIAL time. Because believe it or not, we do get hurt when we feel unappreciated even if you don't mean to hurt us. (AGAIN, WE'RE COMPLICATED)
Ladies, that goes for us too. Just because we say we want things or want our other half because we feel unappreciated doesn't mean they don't feel the same way.
But seriously though.....take us out on a real date!
THANKS!
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